Tweet and post limits work their way into prenups
Social-media users know sometimes things get posted online whether they like it or not.
The concern of unflattering, insulting or just plain embarrassing posts appearing on their timelines is enough to make some couples seek legal advice. As a result, social-media clauses are popping up in prenuptial agreements, industry insiders report.
It is a topic of discussion, especially for affluent people or people in the public eye, says Kathleen Grace, managing director of United Capital Financial Advisors and author of Prince Not So Charming (Excelsior Capital Holdings, $14.99), which offers strategies for women to regain financial control.
Prenups are an important tool to outline specifically these types of situations, Grace says. Say you're a model and that's your livelihood, and someone posts pictures of you not looking so good. Does that damage your ability to get modeling contracts?
Fauna Solomon, Pittsburgh-based blogger at TheDatingTruth.com, says she would consider addressing social media in a prenuptial agreement.
Even in my professional life, I've dialed down what I put out there about personal relationships a ton, Solomon says. There's a learning curve for everyone. There is no crash course on social media. I would totally consider it. I could see how you can cross that line.
Social media is a common cause for concern during dating and after the relationship ends, says Rachel Sussman, New York-based marriage and relationship therapist.
It's something you hear a lot about when they're breaking up he or she de-friended me on Facebook or there is a barrage of spying or stalking by the ex on Instagram, Suss-man says. Dating couples are always looking at each other's Facebook pages, seeing if they're In a Relationship' or not, if the person is tagged in any photos he or she shouldn't be, or if they posted a picture they think is inappropriate.
When putting your position on social media into a prenup, it's important to avoid ambiguous language, Grace says. After all, what is embarrassing to you might not be to someone else, she says.
You have to be prepared to litigate because it is so broad, or the prenup clause has to be so ultra specific and take into consideration each and every situation, which is probably impossible, she says.
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Tweet and post limits work their way into prenups