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Expert advice from expats | 7 Days | The Phnom Penh Post – Cambodia's Newspaper of Record

The clinic offers a full spectrum of services for children, adults and couples in Phnom Penh and Siem Reap, for both local and expatriate clientele.

Both are qualified to work in their home countries: Canada and the United States, respectfully, as is their third partner, a neuropsychologist who specialises in assessing and treating developmental disorders in children.

Jefferson uses gestalt techniques to treat the symptoms and disorders his expatriate clients seek help for primarily depression and anxiety but is eclectic in his approach, adding cognitive techniques and role play. Marshall says she relies on narrative therapy, which she describes as helping people re-story their lives.

People with shattered or self-defeating narratives and those with chapters ripped out or forgotten are encouraged to reconstruct the stories they tell about themselves in order to make sense of their lives and alleviate distress and negative behaviour that results from unhealthy scripts that have been imposed.

Both Marshall and Jefferson have been away long enough to know there really isnt that much of a difference between those who leave and those who stay. The issues are the same but the stories are different, Jefferson says.

Marshall is quick to admit that some people would not end up in therapy at home, but do so here because they lack support systems, like long-term friends and relatives.

Sometimes all they need is to be reassured that what they are feeling is natural, she says in answer to questions about culture shock, which can be triggered by relatively trivial things, like constant bartering and the custom that foreigners should pay a bit extra because they have more money.

People get infuriated by having to pay more. Then, they freak out at themselves for freaking out, Marshall explains. Culture shock, however, is usually pretty easy to get over once identified, and most people do so within a few months, both therapists agree.

On the contrary, they dont ask clients who complain at overcharges whether they also object to being paid far more than their Khmer colleagues.

That would be antagonistic, Jefferson explains, adding, that some therapists do use antagonism as a technique to jolt clients.

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Expatriates’ Strange Lives in Cambodia | 7 Days | The Phnom Penh Post – Cambodia's Newspaper of Record

I came to Cambodia to cover the fighting, especially in 1997, Amat says. I became interested in Cambodian culture. But at the same time, I became interested in foreign communities living in Cambodia. This was a poor country at that time. It started with nothing. There were a lot of expats and many expressed a lot of arrogance towards Cambodian people. I felt so much shock by the way these expat families treated the locals. This was the idea for me to write a book.

Amat says that many expats first come to Cambodia as tourists with an idealised picture of the countrys people and its natural beauty, leading to unrealistic expectations when they decide to settle here over the long term.

When they just visit as a tourist, Cambodia is like what they saw in postcard, a beautiful country. When they decided to live, then they turn to the back of the postcard and they begin to face a lot of culture shock: bad traffic, poverty, beggars.

Rather than confront these issues, many instead decided to form their own expat communities and separate themselves away from local people.

They dont really open the window to Cambodia. They dont try to speak the language. They are not interested in the culture. When they finish their job, they just go to the foreign bars, have beers with friends. They live in Cambodia, but they dont really live with Cambodians.

Frdric Amat took at least seven years to compile the activities, routines and problems of the expat community into his book. Of particular interest to him were those foreigners who travelled to Cambodia to look for a prospective partner.

A lot of single men come here because its easier for them to find love in Cambodia than their own country. They go to the bars in Cambodia. Some of them have the Cambodian girls from the bars. I write about the girls in the bars, who do not adhere to the usual traditions of Cambodian girls, he said.

In the last chapter, Amat gives his formulation for how expats can enjoy life in Cambodia to the fullest. To him, Cambodia is not a hard place to live and people are not hard to communicate with; the only barrier lies in foreigners refusing to truly open themselves to the society. If they open their mind a bit, they will enjoy their life here.

Jrme Morinire, the publisher of Cambodias Tuk Tuk Editions publishing house, has printed 4,000 copies of Amats work in English, with distribution planned for Thailand, Laos and Myanmar in the coming weeks.

Mostly our writers wrote books about Angkor temples or the Khmer Rouge; this is the first time that weve published a work about peoples daily life, their social life and their culture, Morinire said. - Expatriates Strange Lives in Cambodia is available at Monument bookstores and the airports in Phnom Penh and Siem Reap for US$12.

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Growing across borders

by Ronnie Teo, bizhive@theborneopost.com. Posted on March 18, 2012, Sunday

With competition in the Malaysian banking scene intensifying, local banking groups will continue to seek opportunities offshore for further growth opportunities.

MORE URGENT: The need for the financial sector to cross international borders becomes more urgent as the regional and international complexity of Malaysias financial system continues to transform in light of global financial updates.

With Asias economic development set to accelerate over the coming decade on the back of increasing income levels and technological advancements, Malaysian banks now see a push for regional integration as the next stepping stone for growth.

As a matter of fact, the need for the financial sector to cross international borders becomes more urgent as the regional and international complexity of Malaysias financial system continues to transform in light of global financial updates.

The forces of change are becoming more apparent with factors such as demographic changes, greater requirements for infrastructure development and the emergence of industries powered by innovation that have hastened regional integrations.

Thus, the Financial Sector Blueprint 2011-2020 (FSB) came to light.

Launched by Prime Minister Datuk Seri Najib Tun Razak in December last year, this new blueprint takes over from the 10-year Financial Services Masterplan which ended after laying a strong foundation for the countrys banking and financial sector.

The move endeavours to mobilise regional funds and promote resource allocation to investments efficiently.

I want to see our financial sector playing a key role in the cross-border intermediation of Asias financial funds, with Malaysias financial institutions continuing to venture abroad and to replicate their domestic successes in these new markets, stressed Najib during the launch.

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Dot Com Pho – OMG! It’s Raining In The OC Edition

Believe it or not, it does rain in the OC. Its a rare event but when it happens, Orange County does a fairly good imitation of what life is like for the Vancouver Dot Com crew. Not only did the rain drove us out of the Pho Ba Co patio, it drove us out of Pho Ba Co completely. The inside of the Pho Ba Co didnt have enough seats to accommodate our group. We had to go next door to Las Fajitas Mexican Grill.

We had a full house ofಒ people making out to Dot Com fiesta. We created one long table near the wall to seat everyone. If you would like to join us for a future Dot Com Pho meetup, follow me on Twitter to find the time and place. We do this every Saturday (unless Im out of town).

For this edition of Dot Com Pho, we check out the new Apple iPad, test the power of Verizon 4G LTE, meet the lady whos wanted in six States, try to take a picture ofthe bow tie man without his bow tie, hot Mexican food, and a whole lot more. Enjoy and well see you next week!

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7 Welcome To London | The Story So Far #4 – Video

17-03-2012 06:13 IndyBrown.TV brings you the story behind the British Hindi thriller '7 Welcome To London'. In this episode, see exclusive coverage of the world premiere of '7 Welcome To London' which took place at Cineworld Ilford. Find out more about '7 Welcome To London' on: http://www.facebook.com http://www.twitter.com http://www.7wtlfilm.com Stay in the loop with our shows Subscribe for more on http://www.youtube.com Like us on http://www.facebook.com Follow us on http://www.twitter.com http://WWW.INDYBROWN.TV

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