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Brian Mancini with his service dog Romeo.(Photo: Family Photo)

His death certificate will read that Brian Scott Mancini, 38, passed away earlier this month in Arizona.

That would be accurate, but it is not true.

The record will state that Mancini died by his own hand.

This, too, would be factual, but it is not correct.

The truth is, Sgt. 1st Class Brian Mancini was killed by a roadside bomb in Iraq in 2007.

Back then he was a combat medic with the army serving his second tour in the war zone. Hed saved a number of lives. Hed seen a lot, been through a lot.

When his unit was ambushed Mancini was among the most seriously wounded.

Years later he told a reporter, I knew my face had been hit really bad. I was peeling my glasses away from my face. I was choking on my blood and teeth. I reached in with my fingers and did a finger sweep, and took my teeth out. I remember I opened my airway as much as I could.

He lost an eye. There were severe facial injuries. Severe skull and brain injuries. The surgeries and rehabilitation would go on for years.

Mancini contemplated suicide, but he fought through it.

His marriage fell apart. He struggled to readjust. But after his medical discharge in 2011 he found a calling in helping other vets, just as hed helped wounded soldiers in the field.

He founded an organization called Honor House, which assists veterans like him.

Mancini learned firsthand that wounds mended are not necessarily healed, and that unseen injuries are just as deadly.

He was the kind of boy who always wanted to help, said his mother, Jackie Williams. When he was four or five we saw a bad traffic accident. He said to me, Mama, weve got to pray for those people. Weve got to pray for those people. Thats how he was loving a gentle soul before everything

For a 2014 article on problems at the Veterans Administration Mancini told The Arizona Republics Dennis Wagner, "There was a really dark period of my life when I literally just lay on the floor in my house crying I just was really frustrated with the lack of care. I felt betrayed All they wanted to do was throw a lot of drugs at me, and those were having an adverse effect. They had me on 12 medications at one point. ... I finally said, 'You know what? I'm done.'

He persevered. He got a therapy dog named Romeo. He took up fly fishing. He worked with fellow vets.

But his injuries, physical and otherwise, were severe. And recently they caught up with him.

I feel like we lost him in the past four or five weeks, Mancinis mother told me. That strong young man was gone. He was in such physical pain.

Mancinis war injuries and other complications worsened.

It was just too much for him, Jackie said. Too much pain. Too much.

She paused and added, Brian was always broke. Always using his money to help others. One of the last things he did was write a check -- pretty much emptying his bank account -- to his church.

News of Mancinis death drew phone calls, letters and emails from all over the country.

We have a letter from a woman he served with and a photo of her baby, Mancinis aunt Donna Winston said. She says in it that without Brian she wouldnt be here.

Many of those who served with Mancini (called Doc in the army) have contacted the family or left messages.

One reads: Doc - your entire Battalion misses you; thanks for taking care of so many Black Lions on the battlefield - you are a hero to so many. You lived the Warrior Ethos and Never Left A Fallen Comrade - Black Lions.

A scholarship fund at the Maricopa County Community College District has been set up in Brians name. Its called the Sergeant First Class Brian Mancini Memorial Fund.

Too many of these young veterans are dying, Mancinis mom said. Weve got to help them more. Weve got to do more for them.

We forget about them. They can be hard to deal with. So we move on. We forget what theyve sacrificed for us. We hardly notice when another one, like Brian, is lost.

We mistakenly call it a civilian death when it is a combat death.

Sgt. 1st Class Brian Mancini is buried at the National Memorial Cemetery of Arizona on Cave Creek Road. He served over a decade in the military. He received two Purple Hearts, the Combat Action Badge, Combat Medical Badge, Air Assault Badge and Flight Medic Badge.

Brians father, William Mancini, left a brief note on an online memorial guest book for his son. He wrote:

When I was a young man I went to hear a speaker. He said I want to be everything my father wasn't and I want my kids to be everything I can't. My son Brian became that man. My heart is broken. I've never been so sad. My hero, my son, my friend is gone.

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