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AP file photo(From left) Rep. Barb Byrum, D-Onondaga, Rep. Lisa Brown, D-West Bloomfield, playwright Eve Ensler and Sen. Rebecca Warren, D-Ann Arbor were part of a performance last month that included Brown and 10 other lawmakers of The Vagina Monologues on the Michigan Statehouse steps in Lansing, Mich. Brown was barred from speaking in the Michigan House because, she says, Republicans objected to her saying vagina during debate on an anti-abortion bill.

NEW YORK Kayt Sukel, an author who writes about neuroscience and sexuality, has given lectures around the country on the issue. And theres one word, she finds, that never fails to make some in her audience squeamish.

Theres just something about the word vagina that startles people I dont know what it is, says Sukel. People sit back a little bit. Sometimes they start giggling. I end up using euphemisms just to make them more comfortable, and more receptive to what I am saying. And we dont seem to have the same problems with the word penis.

In a much different setting, Judy Gold has similar experiences. The popular standup comic and actress, who last year starred in her own successful off-Broadway show, focuses her routines on being gay, Jewish, a New Yorker and a mother. Her audiences presumably know what theyre getting into. Yet she, too, hears gasps in the audience when she says the V-word.

And so neither woman was extremely surprised when they heard about the recent incident in Michigan, where a lawmaker was temporarily barred from speaking in the state legislature after using the word vagina during a debate.

It all began when Lisa Brown, a Democrat, was speaking against a bill requiring doctors to ensure that abortion-seekers havent been coerced into ending their pregnancies. Im flattered youre all concerned about my vagina, Brown said. But no means no. Brown believes she was censured because of the word vagina, though her Republican opponents later said it was the no means no part, which they claimed likened the law to rape. The lawmaker denies she was doing anything of the kind.

But politics aside, many are baffled that even in 2012, the V-word retains shock value much more than its male counterpart even though it is finally beginning to surface regularly in mainstream entertainment, popping up in network TV shows as well as in newly bold references in advertising.

I mean, you can say penis, says Gold. You can say erection, erectile dysfunction, even vaginal probe. But vagina? Suddenly its a dirty word. And its the correct anatomical term!

Can an anatomical term really be a bad word? Even the Parents Television Council, a watchdog group that tracks what it sees as objectionable content on TV, acknowledges that difficulty.

Ive got a toddler, and when you read potty-training books, they discourage the use of euphemisms for body parts, says Melissa Henson, the groups director of communications. But what troubles the PTC, she says, is the use of this language in the context of cheap sex jokes. Its dumbed-down humor thats in no way respectful of the audience.

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